The name of this site is so inaccurate it's insulting. You can't come here if you just want someone to listen. Long-time users will line up to judge you, highlighting your failings and criticizing you one after another. Rarely do they offer actual encouragement or support, and even their advice is clinical in its delivery. Everything is a one-size-fits-all solution, and they jump down your throat the moment you disagree. I believe genuine help requires compassion, taking into account the other person's perspective and limitations. These people are blind to both. The only thing they're out to help is their own egos, proving their supposed wisdom and superiority. (How arrogant do you have to be to name yourself "Wiseman" on a forum like this?) Go to this site and you'll leave feeling more alone than when you came.